Social Media and the Armed Forces
I was reading a Reuter's article about how the military plans to allow Twitter and other social media applications for usage. I have some pretty strong feelings about this. While I do believe that the usage of Twitter and Facebook should never be restricted from some one's personal life, I believe that the military is making a grievous error in allowing it's usage in deployed locations.
I use applications like Twitter, Facebook and even Foursquare. They are popular web applications that tie our virtual relationships in with our real life happenings and relationships. The folks over at the site "Please Rob Me" does show that in our strong desire to share our real lives with our digital friends, many choose not to omit things and have full sharing of their lives. We don't see much harm in sharing our lives online. I don't mean to put anyone down, but I feel that the most problematic group of individuals for this "overshare" of personal details online, are our youths.
I know when most people think of soldiers, the image of impressionable youths certainly isn't the first thing that comes to mind. Though it is true. A good number of individuals enlisting in the military are the under 21 crowd. Turning to the military before college or to help them with college. Fresh out of high school youths. I certainly was one of them. I made a pile of mistakes growing into my adult life, mistakes that I was grateful to be under the care of the US Military instead of on my own.
There are so many innocuous things that a young soldier could want to post, that could hurt people and not in the way that the media would present it. I'm not talking about terrorists finding your location, I'm talking about information that needs to be delivered appropriately. Here is a situation for you, it's purely fictional but a very plausible situation.
Jack and his girlfriend Jill are soldiers from an Army Reservist group from Texas. They are friends with each other in facebook, friends with each other's parents and family. They've been in Afghanistan for more tours than they want to, but thankfully have been able to use facebook to keep their families in touch, even their update about the upcoming marriage when they finally return to the states.
Their tours are extended for another two years and Jill slips into a bit of depression. To make matters worse for Jill, a good friend of hers is killed in a roadside bombing. Jill does the unthinkable and takes her own life. Jack without thinking, writes a very touching note and tagged Jill in it. No one has broke the news to Jill's parents yet... not the right way.
A very sad and horrible situation, but unfortunately very possible. Things happen in deployed locations, very bad things (not all the time, but it's possible) and it's hard for a youth to process what happens and even harder for them to handle their emotions and express their feelings of loss, fear and confusion in a mature and healthy way. Sadly the military doesn't help much in giving our deployed youths the emotional tools needed to handle these situations.
There are so many other situations in which the allowance of social media applications in deployed locations are horrible ideas. I just can't say I support their decision.
Those were my two cents.