I asked earlier today on Twitter, "You've got a geeky male love interest, how would you sweeten his day?" I was surprised by the responses, not the suggestions but more of the people who reached out to me privately saying, "Let me know what people say, I'm curious!" With stories of their geeky beau they want to make happy.
Without getting into the multitudes of types of geeky men, I can break this down in one answer: Show interest and curiosity in what he does.
If you're beau is a programmer, you don't need to know how cache invalidation works, Big O notation or the finer points of functional programming, you just need to listen. You're not going to understand everything, but I promise if you take a moment to ask him about his work he'll tell you. If you have a programmer love interest, try asking them if they've "solved any cool problems this week," in regards to their job. Chances are, you'll have them asking you if you seriously care (and do show interest) and then going on to tell you what they did. Perhaps they work at a webby startup and has been fighting some bug all week and after finally vanquishing it, discovered that they were able to speed up request times on the site they work for by a couple of milliseconds.
It's not hard to talk to a programmer, even if you don't think you're not smart enough to hold a conversation with them. I've only had good experiences talking with programmers, most of the ones I know are very opinionated and passionate about their specialties. Communication isn't a one way thing.
I've known many a geeky male to be more than happy to sit back and let me talk about myself, my interests and my work. That's not a conversation though, don't let them get away with being listeners. You also don't have to pretend to understand what they are talking about to get them to converse and potentially respect you.
Which brings me to my next point, there is no shame in telling some one "I don't know." Repeat that phrase, learn it and embrace it. You'll gain far more appreciation and respect if you own up to things you don't know and seem willing to learn. Learning doesn't mean being a master of something, it just means knowing more about a subject than you knew five minutes prior.
The above suggestions can go for whatever genre of geekery your interest is into, be it video games, physics, medicine, programming or math (and all the other genres of geekery). It really doesn't matter, just show interest. Nine times out of ten, you'll not only get an explanation of what your interest did at work, but they will also try their best to explain what it means to you in laymen terms so that you can better follow the conversation.
I'm sure you probably were thinking I'd have a list of things you could buy your geek instead of something as simple as "listen." So, I've put together a list of nice things that I know some geeks appreciate:
If you have any suggestions or additions leave me a comment or tweet me to: @tia_marie
I'll preface this entire post with this, "I'm grumpy and snarky today," and that I don't hate Kari Byron. Getting those two points out of the way, I wanted to dedicate my #Blogin5 post to this topic.
Every web nerd's wet dream, Kari Byron will be staring in a science show with the aim of getting kids interested in Science. She's gorgeous, charming and got her start in a very popular show. It's pretty easy to see why she got the role/gig. She's a sexy "geek." There are tons of other sexy geek lady actresses (who probably would never host a kids' show) that originated their professional lives with an education in Science/Math related fields. I've put together a small helpful list!
This is a really short list, I haven't done tons of research (I didn't want to spend a load of time on this post cause I am at work), I'm sure you guys could name some other actresses who started in a science field.
It probably is difficult to find Television personalities who have backgrounds in science or math to host educational programs. As far as I'm aware, the most prominent person I can think of who had an actual background in science who taught in an educational show was Bill Nye, who studied mechanical engineering at Cornell. I even looked into Mr. Wizard and Beakman from Beakman's World, neither of which studied science or math in college.
Of everyone I've listed in this post, Danica McKellar is the one that really stands out to me. I'm still dumbfounded she hasn't gotten her own educational show (she might not want one). Danica has been a proponent of helping middle school aged girls gain interest in mathematics. She's even written two books, Kiss My Math: Showing Pre-Algebra Who's Boss and Hot X: Algebra Exposed that targets young girls in grades 7 - 9.
I do appreciate Kari's position at least that one can be a girl without a science background and still celebrate and enjoy science related things. Regardless of who gets to host an educational kids' show, if it inspires at least one child to imagine and fall in love with science. It's a Good Thing.
I originally found this video on reddit, of a robot that is described as being controlled by the neurons in a rat brain that is kept in a bell jar. I wasn't paying complete attention during the video the first time around and later watched it again after reading the comments in the reddit thread.
One of the comments struck a chord with me in a very disquieting way. To think of an a creature's consciousness being used like this creeped me out.
I'm not one to really be waxing philosophical, but the benefits of such technology out weighs the social implications of that sort of lifestyle.
Sensationalism aside, the technology is beyond incredible. It's the Reading University Neural Animat Project. Here is a brief description of what they are:

The technology could assist scientists on discovering more about neurological disorders and the potential to merge technology with the nervous system in order to treat disorders and injuries.
What advancements do you think technology like this could have on our society? Do you think the societal implications would be a factor on whether or not this technology sees the light of day anytime soon?
Leave a comment or a shoutout on twitter!
First off, let me preempt this blog post with this: I'm not a food expert, I'm not a travel guru and I'm certainly not a San Francisco expert. I am however, very fond of some things in San Francisco that I'm of the opinion are far more important for first timers to see than Alcatraz and Pier 39.
My favourite thing about San Francisco is the food. It is absolutely awesome and there are so many different varieties of cuisines it'll make your head spin. So here are my favourite places to eat in San Francisco, that I think are quintessential to your experience. I'm sure there are places I haven't eaten that true San Francisco natives will say "But you forgot this!"
I think that about sums it up for food, now on to the entertainment and odds & ends!
That's all I can think of for now, but I'll keep adding to this list as I find new things that I think are just awesome to do. Don't spend all of your time doing things that every tourist is doing. Go see the Mission District, find the Haight or hell even go to SOMA (South of Market) and get a glimpse of the area where most of the startup companies for websites you enjoy are located!
Yesterday I wrote about the multiple uses of RFID and things that you can do on your own with RFID. Today I'm going to write a bit of an intro to RFID. Some basic information about RFID tags and what you need to know about them.
First off, what is RFID? Simply defined, RFID stands for Radio Frequency Identification, it describes exactly what it does: identification using radio signals. RFID is a two-part system including interrogators and tags. The interrogators are the "readers" and the tags are the pieces where the information is stored.
Here is an image of various RFID tags that I got with the RFID kit for Ketralnis from ThinkGeek.
Sparkfun has 125kHz RFID card style tag for only $1.95, or you can find other places that offer bulk tags for reasonable prices.
It's important to know that how the data is stored, accessed, changed and transmitted over the air is going to be different based on the maker of the tag. There are a few standards in place, but many manufacturers have their own methods for storing data and their own protocols. You have passive and active RFID tags, the difference being that active tags have a transmitter and require their own power source (think like highway toll payment tags). The power source is used to run the microchip's circuitry and to broadcast a signal to the reader. Passive tags require no battery, they instead draw power from the reader, which sends out electromagnetic waves that induce a current in the tag's antenna. You can also find semi-passive tags that have a battery to run the chips' circuitry, but communicate by drawing power from the reader. Active and semi-passive tags are generally useful for longer range needs but cost more than passive tags. Another difference is that the battery in active tags may be used to boost read/write range and allow for larger memories. Passive tags typically have any where between 64bits to 1 kilobyte of non-volatile memory. Active tags have memories has high as 128kilobytes.
So what about the relationship between frequency and tag/antenna distance?
High frequency Passive tags (typically 13MHz) and low frequency (around 12kHz) systems have a read range of less than 3 feet. With high frequency and low frequency tag systems, the size of the tag (and the antenna area) will have a big impact on their read range. Some applications limit the read range to about 6 - 8 inches while some newer technologies (that use UHF systems) have a long read range in the 20 - 25 feet area. Read range is going to depend on a few factors: Transponder antennae size, size of the reader's antenna and it's output power. Usually with passive (non powered) tags, long read range and small size are mutually exclusive. There are three primary frequency bands being used for RFID.
(source: http://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/aa479355.aspx)
There are also two basic types of chips you can find in RFID tags: Read-Only and Read-Write. Read-Only chips are going to be programmed with information during the process of making them. You can't change information on Read-Only chips. Read-Write chips allows for information to be added to the tag or overwritten.
So that being said, where can you as the DYI-er get your hands on various types of RFID tags? Here are a couple of sources that might be helpful:
So that wraps up my intro to RFID tags, hopefully this was informative and not too terribly scattered. Next up will be RFID readers.